I kinda get where you’re coming from, but I feel like I would be accused of queer baiting by this metric?
I am a bisexual woman who is married to a man. I’ve never worn a ring pop on my finger, or been to Space Mountain, I don’t even know who Samantha Ronson is, and I have no idea what Chromat means.
I thought my attraction to women made me queer. I didn’t realize I had to pass a test and jump through all these hoops.